I Wonder?

How many of us are "pet owners?" I prefer the term "fur-baby" to "pet" simply because so many of us are so deeply connected with our pets that they truly become our "babies"... our "children!" I admit that I am one of these humans. I love my animals! I talk to them like children, and they understand. I protect them, and they protect me. If I am sad or upset, they quietly snuggle in my lap or beside me to comfort me. If I am happy and playful, my "babies" gladly run, bounce, jump, and play with me. I sometimes sing to them, and they immediately run and hide! I may have a human "glad attack" and decide to dance with them, but they think I have lost all sanity. But they let me be silly!

 

I put their sweaters or jackets on when it is cold and wipe the "gook” out of their eyes with a mother's gentle touch. I even ask them questions that I expect them to answer! It is MORE than a symbiotic relationship because the heart is involved, and LOVE is present. I receive comfort from the love of my dogs and animals, as do you from yours. My fur babies are happy (lips smiling and tails wagging) to see me when I come home. They patiently listen to my trail stories or softball tournament replays. They do not judge me! They allow me to be who I am at any given moment. They let me be ME and push or support me to a BETTER ME! Their love is UNCONDITIONAL!  

 

In our relationship, I understand that my dogs filter my emotions. If I feel sad, they comfort me and take away my sadness. If I feel anxious or frightened, my "kids" work hard to remove my fears. But remember, my dogs are equally or more in tune with my emotions than I am with theirs. That means they experience my feelings before I can figure them out. 

 

I have spoken with numerous people who have shared stories of "fur babies" experiencing stress-related health issues during this crazy COVID-19 time. The animals are overwhelmed with our emotions, fears, and anxieties! What can we do to return all the love and comfort we freely receive from our "pets?" We can love them stronger! Hold them longer! Talk to them calmer, softer, and more kindly. They are experiencing the same emotions we are experiencing, ONLY AT A HEIGHTENED LEVEL! It is our turn to "give back" to these precious little beings who love us so deeply that they are not only happy when we are happy, but they feel sad when we are sad. These "four-legged" children willingly "take on our stuff"… BECAUSE THEY LOVE US UNCONDITIONALLY!